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Thursday’s essay is called, “The should haves, could haves, if onlys, and what ifs of your life,” and it includes a plethora of suggestions for looking toward a bright future rather than dwelling on the dreary past. If you could follow all the suggestions in this essay alone, you would have a totally different life. Guaranteed! (As much as anything in human behavior can be guaranteed!)

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Thursday's And Then Some Essay preview:
The should haves, could haves, if onlys, and what ifs of your life
by Richard L. Weaver II

Excerpt:

Remember, the if onlys and what ifs in your life are unhappiness generators. When you dwell on them, they inform you that you can’t be happy now, and they open the door to pessimism, stress, illness, and isolation. Failure is part of the human condition. You have a human right to make mistakes, to try and not succeed, to fail outright. Wins and losses are both temporary. Your value as a person does not rest on your success at any one thing; failing at a task does not mean you’ve failed as a person, rather, it is clear and evident proof that you are human and have proper, normal human traits.

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